My Back and Forth With Cosmo Author

Last week Cosmopolitan magazine published an article called 8 Reasons Watching Porn Doesn’t Make Him a Cheater (you didn’t really think I’d link you to it, did you?). Today, I released a video response to it. Check it out: If you’re... Read More

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Restored: A New Book For Wives

My wife and I just released a new book for wives and partners of those who use porn. Restored: True Stories of Love and Lust After Porn. Learn more here.  Read More →


Why I No Longer Work for Covenant Eyes . . . but Still Promote the Heck Out of Them

Several months back I decided to part ways with Covenant Eyes in order to dedicate my time solely to The Porn Effect (a website for teens and young adults) and Integrity Restored (a site for families and clergy). I’m happy with the move since... Read More

Martin Katz Jewel Suite Debuts At The New York Palace

Pamela Anderson: I was molested and raped as a child

When I was about thirteen years old, I came home from a trip to Adelaide (the big city three hours from where I lived) with my friend and his Mum. What did I buy in the big city? A huge block mounted picture of a completely naked Pamela Anderson. Read... Read More

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5 Things to Know and Share About Sex Trafficking

Click to download free ebook 1. What is sex trafficking Sex trafficking is a subset of human trafficking  and has been defined by the 2013 Trafficking in Persons Report as a “severe form” of trafficking in which “a commercial sex act is induced... Read More

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6 Ways to Protect your Kids From Porn

I’d like to begin this post with a warning from the U.S Justice Department: “Never before in the history of telecommunications media in the United States has so much indecent and obscene material been so easily accessible by so many minors in... Read More


50 Book Giveaway!

We’re giving away 50 copies to 50 different people! The winners are posted below. If you won, please contact  with your mailing address and we’ll send you a copy of Good Pictures Bad Pictures. We’re giving away... Read More


Giving Away 40 Books in 24 hours!

Shaun Alexander McAfee, who donated the money, chose the two winners: Jeremy and Fr. Joseph. Jeremy wrote: “If I won 20 books, every man in my weekly men’s group would get a copy.”   Fr. Joseph wrote: “I would have the books available... Read More


How To Tell Your Fiance You Struggle With Porn

I get many emails from men asking my advice on how to break the news to their girlfriend/finance about their struggles with porn. This short blog will be a summation of my thoughts, how I typically respond to such a question. Should I Even Tell Her? Let’s... Read More


Overcoming Porn: Why Spiritual Advice Isn’t Enough

In this post I’d like to address what I consider to be a problematic approach that Christians sometimes take when counseling those addicted to pornography. It’s the nothing-but-spiritual-advice approach. This approach is problematic for two... Read More

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